One of my biggest pet peeves is non-appreciation. You are owed nothing in this world. In reality, no one has to do anything for you, ever. So when someone uses their time, talents, abilities, love, and support to do something to bring positive energy to your life, you'd better count your blessings.
There are so many people in my past and present, which I've given abundantly of myself to, and it seems as if they never noticed or have forgotten. I don't do things for praise, but acknowledgement would suffice, to let me know that you appreciated what I've done for you.
Maybe it's because since I feel as if you shouldn't do things for people then throw it in their face, it secretly hurts. I say that to say more often than not, you will never realize what kind of sacrifices one makes to make things happen. Mental, physical, emotional, and monetary sacrifices may be used, but you'd never know because that is not the essence of giving. The addition of making someone aware of the hardships you went through to make it happen adds a negative slant to an otherwise beautiful thing.
My Lord never complained; He just took it to Calvary.
Once the giving ceases, then the only question is "why did you stop?" and a "how dare you!" attitude. Who died and made you king/queen? Just as quick as I giveth, I can taketh away. Lol. I can understand frustration, but to not acknowledge all this person has done for you…it just disgusts me to no end.
So I guess my gripes lead to the realization of:
a. Watch who you do for.
b. Make sure the favor is returned.
Friendship and love is a give and take situation. If you have someone who is constantly taking and not giving, throw a flag on that play and address the situation. If you don't nip the problem in the bud, you'll end up drained in the end becasue you hadn't been refilled after your giving. Or at least, give in moderation. Don't change the heart God gave you; just learn to regulate it.
I can't STAND a selfish Em Effer.
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